Monday, December 9, 2013

Be Smart When You're in Love

Hi there!

It's been a long time since my last post.

There are lots lots lots of story and experiences i have.

Okay....................................what should we talk about right now?
Love? 

Yeah, i guess everybody loves this topic.

In this post i don't wanna talk just about my love life.
I wanna talk about love in a deeper sight.

So here's the story.

I've been through so many things which i have no time to write it down these couple months.

Have you heard about my last relationship?

Be glad if you haven't :)

It was the worst situation i have ever experienced.

I thought i was in love.
I thought for once in my life i should chase the person i love no matter how the situation is or what people say about it.

I was so sure and selfish until i was being totally subjective or so-people-called "blinded by love"

I'm not gonna tell the detail about it.
No..............
I don't wanna go there.
I'm over it.

I just take it as the best experience and lesson in my life.

As a person, we always love to be in love.

It feels like we could fly to the moon.
It feels like we could move a mountain.
It feels like everything is so colorful.

But what i observe, most of us are a fool when we were in love.

We would do anything to please the one we love.
We would do anything just to make the person we love stay.
We would do anything to make the person we love laugh.

Would they?

Your answer :)

Just make sure that we can be smart when we are in love.

Love ourselves first.

Instead of being focus on how to make him/her laugh, focus on how to make yourself laugh.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her feels comfortable, focus on how to make yourself feels comfortable.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her love you, focus on how to love yourself and make yourself lovable so that the person you love would love you just the way you are.

Don't lose yourself!
Be Smart When You're in Love

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