Hey there!
Don't i have things to write?
Actually, PLENTY!
I just don't post it.
Keep it in mind.
So you read the subject already.
Work
Talk
Walk
That probably best describe the way i live my life.
This couple years i learned a lot.
I've been working in a new office from May 2012.
It's my dream job.
My real dream profession.
Most people say "it's a terrific thing to do what you love and love what you do at the same time"
Is that true?
Not exactly.
Yes it's true that it's a happy thing to work for something that you really love.
But the thing is, as a human, we have to deal with other people.
People who might be an "obstacle" for your goals or ideas.
I'm kind of person who would do my job the best that i can.
I'm kind of person that would not cheat or do negative things to achieve my goals.
I was really in love with my job.
I was really focus on fixing things up.
Until so many things happened.
Those people who don't wanna be better.
Those negative mindset that ruined things.
Not from me.
I'm kind of person who choose to be in silence when everything goes wrong but do something to fix it up.
When you've been trying to fix things up for years and still no progress caused by those people who don't wanna be better, all you got is a frustration.
So when you had done all your works, time for you to talk what's on your mind.
Tell them what you've done and achieved.
Tell them what your solutions and goals.
Tell them how it should be.
When they don't change, time for you to walk out the door.
Walk with pride.
Walk with million better ideas inside your head for your next job.
Walk with faith that you can do better that what you did yesterday.
WALK WITH A VISION TO BE THE BEST OF YOU
Monday, December 9, 2013
Be Smart When You're in Love
Hi there!
It's been a long time since my last post.
There are lots lots lots of story and experiences i have.
Okay....................................what should we talk about right now?
Love?
Yeah, i guess everybody loves this topic.
In this post i don't wanna talk just about my love life.
I wanna talk about love in a deeper sight.
So here's the story.
I've been through so many things which i have no time to write it down these couple months.
Have you heard about my last relationship?
Be glad if you haven't :)
It was the worst situation i have ever experienced.
I thought i was in love.
I thought for once in my life i should chase the person i love no matter how the situation is or what people say about it.
I was so sure and selfish until i was being totally subjective or so-people-called "blinded by love"
I'm not gonna tell the detail about it.
No..............
I don't wanna go there.
I'm over it.
I just take it as the best experience and lesson in my life.
As a person, we always love to be in love.
It feels like we could fly to the moon.
It feels like we could move a mountain.
It feels like everything is so colorful.
But what i observe, most of us are a fool when we were in love.
We would do anything to please the one we love.
We would do anything just to make the person we love stay.
We would do anything to make the person we love laugh.
Would they?
Your answer :)
Just make sure that we can be smart when we are in love.
Love ourselves first.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her laugh, focus on how to make yourself laugh.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her feels comfortable, focus on how to make yourself feels comfortable.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her love you, focus on how to love yourself and make yourself lovable so that the person you love would love you just the way you are.
Don't lose yourself!
Be Smart When You're in Love
It's been a long time since my last post.
There are lots lots lots of story and experiences i have.
Okay....................................what should we talk about right now?
Love?
Yeah, i guess everybody loves this topic.
In this post i don't wanna talk just about my love life.
I wanna talk about love in a deeper sight.
So here's the story.
I've been through so many things which i have no time to write it down these couple months.
Have you heard about my last relationship?
Be glad if you haven't :)
It was the worst situation i have ever experienced.
I thought i was in love.
I thought for once in my life i should chase the person i love no matter how the situation is or what people say about it.
I was so sure and selfish until i was being totally subjective or so-people-called "blinded by love"
I'm not gonna tell the detail about it.
No..............
I don't wanna go there.
I'm over it.
I just take it as the best experience and lesson in my life.
As a person, we always love to be in love.
It feels like we could fly to the moon.
It feels like we could move a mountain.
It feels like everything is so colorful.
But what i observe, most of us are a fool when we were in love.
We would do anything to please the one we love.
We would do anything just to make the person we love stay.
We would do anything to make the person we love laugh.
Would they?
Your answer :)
Just make sure that we can be smart when we are in love.
Love ourselves first.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her laugh, focus on how to make yourself laugh.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her feels comfortable, focus on how to make yourself feels comfortable.
Instead of being focus on how to make him/her love you, focus on how to love yourself and make yourself lovable so that the person you love would love you just the way you are.
Don't lose yourself!
Be Smart When You're in Love
Too Busy Being Busy
Hi there!
Well i got to say that it's been a very long time since my last post, isn't it?
Just like what i wrote before, I WAS TOO BUSY BEING BUSY.
There's so many thoughts and stories i was dying to write and share but again, I WAS TOO BUSY BEING BUSY.
Kenapas sih Nobi? Kok ngulang-ngulang kata-kata itu terus?
Sering ngga sih, lo nemu orang yang udah lama susah diajak ketemu dan tiap ditanya jawabannya selalu "gue sibuk banget".
Admit it, most of us always think that being busy is cool.
It feels like we are important and have no time so that people would think that we are a very successful person or a very popular person.
Sibuk itu selalu di-relate dengan karir yang bagus atau kegiatan yang banyak atau bahkan terlalu banyak teman sampe-sampe kita susah banget buat bagi waktu ketemuan.
Berapa banyak dari kita yang waktu kecil ngerengek ke orang tua kita "Papa, aku mau main dong... Kita liburan..." dan dapet jawaban dari orang tua kita "Papa sibuk, Nak... Di kantor banyak kerjaan."
Atau berapa banyak yang pernah denger kata-kata "Wah dia susah banget kalo diajak ketemu atau kumpul-kumpul. Dia sibuk banget. Biasa, orang penting dia".
Waktu kecil, gue berpikir bahwa menjadi sibuk adalah bagian dari kesuksesan orang dewasa.
Sibuk adalah bagian dari menjadi kaya.
Sibuk adalah hal yang keren.
Kalo diajak main, gue pengen banget jadi orang yang bisa jawab "Sorry banget nih, gue ngga bisa ikut ya. Lagi sibuk banget nih".
I think that would be such a cool answer.
I am 25 years old now.
I have career and i have friends.
Do i still feel excited being busy?
Now let's talk about that! Hahaha...
Banyak hal yang kalo lo pikirin atau bayangin waktu lo beranjak dewasa bakal jadi hal yang keren atau menarik kalo lo begini atau kalo lo begitu.
Salah satunya dengan menjadi orang yang sibuk tadi itu.
Di perjalanan hidup gue yang lumayan flat ini, menjadi sibuk adalah satu hal yang membingungkan.
Di satu sisi, gue sering bersyukur dengan kesibukan ini karena ada beberapa hal yang ngga sempet gue pikirin karena kesibukan tadi. Di sisi lain, kesibukan juga bikin frustrasi atau stress.
I don't mind being busy if i were busy with my own business or problems.
Kenyataannya, ketika lo menjadi orang dewasa, hidup itu ngga sesimple yang lo jalanin waktu lo masih anak kecil atau remaja.
Nobi, initinya lo mau bilang apa sih?!!!
Hahahaha... terkesan muter-muter ya?
Jadi gini, gue bisa bilang banyak hal luar biasa yang terjadi di perjalanan hidup gue.
4 tahun yang lalu gue mungkin masih sosok orang yang cuma menghabiskan waktunya nongkrong di kampus dan magang.
Banyak waktu yang gue buang cuma untuk leyeh-leyeh atau nonton TV sampe nyokap teriak "Adek!!! Kamu nih ngga ada kerjaan banget sih! Nonton TV terus!!!"
At that time, gue pernah ngomong dalam hati "Ntar ya gue bakal buktiin ke nyokap kalo dari hobi gue nonton MTV bisa bikin gue ngehasilin uang!"
Tuhan dengerin omongan gue saat itu kayanya.
Hampir 2 tahun yang lalu, beberapa omongan gue yang tadinya gue pikir cuma sebatas angan-angan orang ngga punya kegiatan berubah jadi kenyataan.
Waktu gue masih SMP, kerjaan gue sama temen-temen gue selesai sekolah cuma nongkrong-nongkrong dan ngayal bisa kerja di radio dan ngatur-ngatur musik yang diputer di radio.
Pikiran simple kita cuma "enak kali ya bisa kerja ngatur-ngatur lagu, terus didenger orang deh!"
Di pikiran kita itu kerjaan ngga ada sibuk-sibuknya.
Sekarang, gue menjalani pekerjaan itu.
Santai? IYA TERKADANG!
Realitanya, sebuah pekerjaan dan tuntutan hidup itu berjalan beriringan.
Ketika lo menjalani sebuah pekerjaan, lo juga akan menjalani drama-dramanya.
Drama di kerjaan lo dan drama di hidup lo yang datang setiap hari.
Drama ini yang akan bikin lo sibuk.
Sibuk untuk belajar gimana cara cari solusi.
Sibuk untuk bertahan.
Sibuk untuk bersosialisasi supaya pekerjaan lo bisa kebantu dengan network lo.
Sibuk untuk beresin perasaaan lo.
Sibuk untuk cari waktu buat diri lo sendiri.
I am very busy being busy taking care of everything except my own business.
3 Bulan terakhir ini, gue berada di fase dimana gue menyadari bahwa waktu gue habis untuk sibuk ngeberesin banyak urusan.
Ironisnya, sebagian besar urusan itu adalah urusan orang lain.
Di pekerjaan yang sekarang gue jalani, gue baru bener-bener belajar kalo hidup itu ngga se-enteng "jalanin kerjaan sesuai passion lo dan semuanya akan terasa ringan".
Kebutuhan hidup di Jakarta sekarang ini bikin orang Jakarta harus bener-bener puter otak dan otot buat nutupin kebutuhan-kebutuhan itu.
Di pekerjaan gue yang sekarang, gue ketemu dengan banyak orang dengan berbagai karakternya.
Di pekerjaan gue yang sekarang, gue akuin secara finansial belom bisa mencukupi semuanya dan gue pun harus punya side job.
Di pekerjaan gue yang sekarang lah gue bener-bener berubah menjadi orang yang sibuk walaupun pekerjaan gue bukan kerjaan yang bikin sibuk.
Gue sibuk memilih teman.
Gue sibuk belajar memilih mana orang yang baik dan mana yang ngga baik.
Gue sibuk menguatkan diri gue untuk ngga ngelakuin hal-hal yang akan ngerugiin diri gue sendiri.
Gue sibuk berpolitik untuk menyenangkan semua pihak tapi juga ngga menjilat.
Gue sibuk menyelesaikan drama-drama di hidup temen-temen gue.
Gue sibuk menyelesaikan drama-drama di hidup orang yang gue sayang.
Gue sibuk untuk nyari waktu buat diri gue sendiri menyelesaikan masalah-masalah di hidup gue.
Can you imagine how it feels to be very busy taking care of all things until you don't have time to take care of yourself?
I was too busy listening to a friend's love life story.
I was too busy doing a useless person at the office's job.
I was too busy pleasing everybody around me to make them life easier.
Well, this is a part of my career and life journey.
I got to deal with it until i choose not to be what i am today.
Would i?
No. I would not :)
Well i got to say that it's been a very long time since my last post, isn't it?
Just like what i wrote before, I WAS TOO BUSY BEING BUSY.
There's so many thoughts and stories i was dying to write and share but again, I WAS TOO BUSY BEING BUSY.
Kenapas sih Nobi? Kok ngulang-ngulang kata-kata itu terus?
Sering ngga sih, lo nemu orang yang udah lama susah diajak ketemu dan tiap ditanya jawabannya selalu "gue sibuk banget".
Admit it, most of us always think that being busy is cool.
It feels like we are important and have no time so that people would think that we are a very successful person or a very popular person.
Sibuk itu selalu di-relate dengan karir yang bagus atau kegiatan yang banyak atau bahkan terlalu banyak teman sampe-sampe kita susah banget buat bagi waktu ketemuan.
Berapa banyak dari kita yang waktu kecil ngerengek ke orang tua kita "Papa, aku mau main dong... Kita liburan..." dan dapet jawaban dari orang tua kita "Papa sibuk, Nak... Di kantor banyak kerjaan."
Atau berapa banyak yang pernah denger kata-kata "Wah dia susah banget kalo diajak ketemu atau kumpul-kumpul. Dia sibuk banget. Biasa, orang penting dia".
Waktu kecil, gue berpikir bahwa menjadi sibuk adalah bagian dari kesuksesan orang dewasa.
Sibuk adalah bagian dari menjadi kaya.
Sibuk adalah hal yang keren.
Kalo diajak main, gue pengen banget jadi orang yang bisa jawab "Sorry banget nih, gue ngga bisa ikut ya. Lagi sibuk banget nih".
I think that would be such a cool answer.
I am 25 years old now.
I have career and i have friends.
Do i still feel excited being busy?
Now let's talk about that! Hahaha...
Banyak hal yang kalo lo pikirin atau bayangin waktu lo beranjak dewasa bakal jadi hal yang keren atau menarik kalo lo begini atau kalo lo begitu.
Salah satunya dengan menjadi orang yang sibuk tadi itu.
Di perjalanan hidup gue yang lumayan flat ini, menjadi sibuk adalah satu hal yang membingungkan.
Di satu sisi, gue sering bersyukur dengan kesibukan ini karena ada beberapa hal yang ngga sempet gue pikirin karena kesibukan tadi. Di sisi lain, kesibukan juga bikin frustrasi atau stress.
I don't mind being busy if i were busy with my own business or problems.
Kenyataannya, ketika lo menjadi orang dewasa, hidup itu ngga sesimple yang lo jalanin waktu lo masih anak kecil atau remaja.
Nobi, initinya lo mau bilang apa sih?!!!
Hahahaha... terkesan muter-muter ya?
Jadi gini, gue bisa bilang banyak hal luar biasa yang terjadi di perjalanan hidup gue.
4 tahun yang lalu gue mungkin masih sosok orang yang cuma menghabiskan waktunya nongkrong di kampus dan magang.
Banyak waktu yang gue buang cuma untuk leyeh-leyeh atau nonton TV sampe nyokap teriak "Adek!!! Kamu nih ngga ada kerjaan banget sih! Nonton TV terus!!!"
At that time, gue pernah ngomong dalam hati "Ntar ya gue bakal buktiin ke nyokap kalo dari hobi gue nonton MTV bisa bikin gue ngehasilin uang!"
Tuhan dengerin omongan gue saat itu kayanya.
Hampir 2 tahun yang lalu, beberapa omongan gue yang tadinya gue pikir cuma sebatas angan-angan orang ngga punya kegiatan berubah jadi kenyataan.
Waktu gue masih SMP, kerjaan gue sama temen-temen gue selesai sekolah cuma nongkrong-nongkrong dan ngayal bisa kerja di radio dan ngatur-ngatur musik yang diputer di radio.
Pikiran simple kita cuma "enak kali ya bisa kerja ngatur-ngatur lagu, terus didenger orang deh!"
Di pikiran kita itu kerjaan ngga ada sibuk-sibuknya.
Sekarang, gue menjalani pekerjaan itu.
Santai? IYA TERKADANG!
Realitanya, sebuah pekerjaan dan tuntutan hidup itu berjalan beriringan.
Ketika lo menjalani sebuah pekerjaan, lo juga akan menjalani drama-dramanya.
Drama di kerjaan lo dan drama di hidup lo yang datang setiap hari.
Drama ini yang akan bikin lo sibuk.
Sibuk untuk belajar gimana cara cari solusi.
Sibuk untuk bertahan.
Sibuk untuk bersosialisasi supaya pekerjaan lo bisa kebantu dengan network lo.
Sibuk untuk beresin perasaaan lo.
Sibuk untuk cari waktu buat diri lo sendiri.
I am very busy being busy taking care of everything except my own business.
3 Bulan terakhir ini, gue berada di fase dimana gue menyadari bahwa waktu gue habis untuk sibuk ngeberesin banyak urusan.
Ironisnya, sebagian besar urusan itu adalah urusan orang lain.
Di pekerjaan yang sekarang gue jalani, gue baru bener-bener belajar kalo hidup itu ngga se-enteng "jalanin kerjaan sesuai passion lo dan semuanya akan terasa ringan".
Kebutuhan hidup di Jakarta sekarang ini bikin orang Jakarta harus bener-bener puter otak dan otot buat nutupin kebutuhan-kebutuhan itu.
Di pekerjaan gue yang sekarang, gue ketemu dengan banyak orang dengan berbagai karakternya.
Di pekerjaan gue yang sekarang, gue akuin secara finansial belom bisa mencukupi semuanya dan gue pun harus punya side job.
Di pekerjaan gue yang sekarang lah gue bener-bener berubah menjadi orang yang sibuk walaupun pekerjaan gue bukan kerjaan yang bikin sibuk.
Gue sibuk memilih teman.
Gue sibuk belajar memilih mana orang yang baik dan mana yang ngga baik.
Gue sibuk menguatkan diri gue untuk ngga ngelakuin hal-hal yang akan ngerugiin diri gue sendiri.
Gue sibuk berpolitik untuk menyenangkan semua pihak tapi juga ngga menjilat.
Gue sibuk menyelesaikan drama-drama di hidup temen-temen gue.
Gue sibuk menyelesaikan drama-drama di hidup orang yang gue sayang.
Gue sibuk untuk nyari waktu buat diri gue sendiri menyelesaikan masalah-masalah di hidup gue.
Can you imagine how it feels to be very busy taking care of all things until you don't have time to take care of yourself?
I was too busy listening to a friend's love life story.
I was too busy doing a useless person at the office's job.
I was too busy pleasing everybody around me to make them life easier.
Well, this is a part of my career and life journey.
I got to deal with it until i choose not to be what i am today.
Would i?
No. I would not :)
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